Saturday, May 27, 2006
blogger; melinda
msn;david, john&david
LimeWire - Babyface - Drama,Love&Relationships
Well, i should really be asleep at this hour. Cause i'm kinda drowsy yet im reluctant to climb into my warm bed and just doze off.
What am i doing up at this hour? Well, was actually just going to check my email until the mother and my two brothers Hong&Van, gave me that educational good for you lecture. ' All we really ask from you is, do well in school get a good job'. But then again, isn't that like a basic want from every asian family? Doesn't or most asian families ask that of their child?
From the words spoken from them, they make it almost easy that you can graduate with a few hours of hard studying. But what they don't know is in the 21st century everything has changed. There are so much more distractions and so much more drama in ones life then JUST hitting the books to succeed and ensure yourself in a good future. They think that banding me and restricting me from every social related thing in my teenage life is really going to help me? Really, that has failure written all over it.
Anyways, the only way i can really prove myself is to succeed and get high marks in school nowadays. There is no easy way out of all this.
So! onto another topic. Just read Daniel's blog. His so called 'The Book Of Love'.
I expect him to publish that soon or in a few years time. Though i don't think every fact or some of his opinions in the blog is correct. But hey the cons and pos's of his lessons we're quite interesting.
However i strongly agree with Daniel's so called three types of guys.
- Nice guy
- Bad guy
and the Wise guys.
Bad guy's are the most dominant. It's so hard to just find those Nice guy's or Wise guy's nowadays. Basically from the mistakes i have made and lessons i have been taught by my wiser elders. Nice guys are always the ones that want something in return. Wise guys are the boring yet the smart one. The one's that are too much on the safe side, scared of taking risks. And the bady guys, oh boy. Their bad yet we can't get enough of them? We know their dickheads yet theres something that draws us into their evil side.
Life is full of obstacles, and full of strange things.
As we experience all this some of us may ask why is it that we know the guy isn't right for us yet we still hold on? or theres that part of us where we just can't forget about them. Its the evilness in them i tell ya. You can hate them, i know i have. You can take them for granted for your heart being broken into millions of pieces, and i've had my fair share of that too.
But never can you keep yourself away from them forever. It's a matter of time that you will fall into the habit and get yourself in the game.
Guys may think girls are weak, but one thing that men/boys/guys need to be informed on in life. Some say that WOMEN are the deadliess creatures in the world. It's funny some of the powers us women have ' some' that is. Thats IF you know and are smart enough not to give it away. So i've been taught, ' an actual smart lady wont give away or let a man know how smart she is' wonder why? Because then if you DO you'd be giving your game away.
And i see at the end of Daniel's blog, it says ' you see girls are dumb? '
Really? are we?
From my opinion. We see more then what you 'bad boys' think we do. We know your game. As soon as we hook up with you, as soon as something starts going on, even the slightest small reason of why you didn't pick up our phone calls, why you didn't return our messages? We know what sort of guy you are, we know what sort of game your tryna pull. Some choose to let it flow because they defend the guy, they dont want to admit that the guy is a bad boy and is only in it to break your heart and ditch you after what his come for what he wanted. But however, some girls realise what is going to happen and thus this is when she steps her game up. And here you have a challenge. A girl who know's what shes doing and whens the right time to do it. Now for you? Thats a smart girl!
once loved.
12:56 AM
